21. Katherine Files for Divorce
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21. Katherine Files for Divorce
Katherine Jackson had tolerated many years of unfaithfulness from
Joseph. She knew he was cheating on her. Everyone knew. Joseph
had been on the road with the boys for years and having brief
encounters with their groupies. Not only had her friends told her,
several of Joseph's more audacious girlfriends had telephoned the
house over the years to brag about their encounters with him. ‘I
don't want those women calling the house,’ she would scream at
Joseph, sometimes in front of the children. ‘I'm sick of it, Joseph.
Enough is enough.’ The reasons for Joseph's actions didn't matter
to Katherine. She wasn't even sure she wanted him to stop his
philandering, as she told one friend. She simply wanted him to be
more discreet. ‘Do you have to play me for a fool?’ she would ask
him, tearfully. A terrible rage began to fulminate in her. ‘Don't you
dare treat me like I'm stupid,’ she screamed at him. ‘There's
nothing worse than being made to feel this way.’
In truth, Joseph treated Katherine just as she had allowed him
to treat her for as long as they'd been husband and wife. There was
little reason for him to stop, as far as he was concerned. In his
view, he worked hard for the Jacksons, he supported his family, he
gave them a good life, so what he did on his free time was none of
their concern, as long as he was present when they needed him.
In January 1973, Katherine learned that one of Joseph's
girlfriends had become pregnant and had a miscarriage. At first,
she couldn't believe it; it was more than she could bear. However,
when she confirmed that it was true, she decided that she had no
choice but to end the marriage. ‘It's over,’ she announced. ‘My
marriage is over.’
Immediately, the children sided with her; oldest daughter
Rebbie, who was twenty-three, couldn't bear to be in the same
room with her father. ‘I don't know how my mother hung in there all those years,’ she later said. ‘She didn't need that heartache with
everything she had to deal with, being a mother, supporting the
children's performance, getting involved in the business end of
things. It was too much. I encouraged her to leave him. I knew that
he was damaging her spirit, that she couldn't possibly have peace
of mind.’
The Jackson offspring had seen Joseph mistreat Katherine for
so many years, they were happy to see her finally take a stand
against him. ‘I hate Joseph,’ Michael said to one of the Motown
staffers. ‘I hate him so much for what he has done to my mother. I
hate him more than I can even say.’
‘But, Michael,’ the Motown employee said, ‘you shouldn't feel
that way. After all, he's your father.’
‘I wish he wasn't my father, sometimes,’ said fourteen-year-
old Michael. ‘I wish it with all of my heart. He's the loser here,’
Michael said. ‘His whole thing is always about winners and losers
and who wins and who loses. With this thing, he loses. Big time.’
Katherine filed for divorce in Los Angeles on 9 March 1973.
Joseph was stunned. He had been controlling and
manipulating Katherine for so many years, he couldn't fathom her
righting back in this manner. He also knew that he could not live
without her. Plus, they had a family, growing children. He had to
change her mind. Who was going to raise all of those kids?
Katherine was faced with a dilemma when she and her
attorneys began filling out the required forms. She didn't have a
clue as to the value or extent of her community property with
Joseph. She had no idea how much her husband – or her children –
earned annually, or what the extent was of their now vast business
enterprises. She didn't even know Joseph's social security number.
Therefore, she had to leave two pages of questions regarding this
personal information unanswered. Her lawyer, Neil C. Newson,
typed on the form, ‘The information required in this declaration is
currently being compiled. A separate amended financial
declaration will be filed.’ Katherine paid her attorney $150 and
then went back to the house on Hayvenhurst. She did not move out
of the house, and neither did Joseph. They just didn't speak to each
other.
‘When Motown heard that Katherine had filed for divorce, all
hell broke loose,’ remembered one family friend. ‘This could have ruined everything in terms of their family image. All of those
stories about how close they were, what a loving family they
were_ It had the potential to be a public relations disaster. It was
decided by Gordy that no one was to know that Katherine and
Joseph were splitting up. It would be a closely guarded secret by
the press department. Today, you couldn't keep something like
that out of the press, especially with a court filing. In the early
seventies, the press wasn't as intrusive as they are today. The
news was never leaked. However, Katherine was badgered
constantly by company officials who tried to convince her to
reconcile with Joseph for the sake of her family's image.’
‘I'm finished with Joseph,’ Katherine told one Motown
official at a meeting to discuss the possible consequences of her
decision. She looked bone-tired, recalled the lawyer. She wore a
simple yet elegant black dress, pearls at her neck, a fine, diamond
pin on her shoulder. Her hair was a jet black coif around her head.
‘It should have nothing to do with the boys' career,’ she said,
firmly. They can still make records and be famous, and their
parents can be divorced, and that will just have to be the end of it,
I'm afraid.’
Though the Motown adviser was not convinced, her son,
Michael, had made up his mind about his parents' marriage. ‘As
far as I'm concerned, it's over,’ he told Diana Ross, according to a
later recollection. ‘My father has hurt my mother, and that's all I
need to know. That, to me, is the end of it.’
‘But people are so complicated,’ Diana told Michael, hinting
at the complexity of Joseph's problems. ‘Who knows why they do
the things they do.’
‘I know why,’ Michael insisted. ‘It's because Joseph is a bad
man, that's why. My brothers are going down the same road,’ he
concluded. ‘I can see it, already.’
After a couple of months, Katherine withdrew her divorce
papers. Joseph promised her that he would try to change, and that
she should not break up the family over his past behaviour. Much
to the dismay of her children, Katherine and Joseph were
reconciled.
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22. The Downslide
Despite The Jackson 5's world-wide popularity with concert-goers,
trouble was brewing where their record sales were concerned. In
Europe, sales had always been uneven. However, record store
performance in America had always been strong. By April 1972
though, whether from overexposure or lack of promotion, the
group was losing steam. The April release of ‘Little Bitty Pretty
One’, was a huge disappointment. Except for a seasonal release of
‘Santa Claus is Coming to Town’, it became the poorest-selling
Jackson 5 single to date, netting only 590,629 copies, globally. Its
follow-up, ‘Lookin' Through the Windows’, fared even worse:
581,426 copies. This was a terrible showing. (It is interesting,
though, that this song marked a sudden sales resurgence in Britain
– a Top 10 hit that was no doubt a consequence of their recent
tour.) When ‘Corner of the Sky’, from the Broadway musical
Pippin (which Gordy had financed), sold only a disappointing
381,426 copies worldwide, Joseph became irate.
‘What the hell is going on?’ he fumed. He began showing up
at Motown, harassing the sales staff and badgering the promotion
executives. The problem was that Berry Gordy was no longer
personally involved in what was going on with the record
company. Instead, he put in charge a man named Ewart Abner, a
seasoned executive in the recording industry by the time he got to
Motown. For his part, Berry now devoted most of his time to
Diana Ross's film career, and to establishing Motown Productions
in the movie business. Although still Motown's chairman of the
board, he was interested only in filmmaking, not in record
production. A star vehicle for Diana Ross called Mahogany was in
the works, a venture that would monopolize most of Berry's time.
At the time, Motown was capitalizing on a more socially
conscious sound with Marvin Gaye and Stevie Wonder. Perhaps
The Jackson 5's audience had become hungry for a hipper sound
than what they got with the group's next release, ‘Hallelujah Day’.
It sold less than a quarter of a million discs; too bad, it was a
terrific little record with leads shared by Michael, Marlon and
Jackie.
In truth, Ewart Abner didn't care about The Jackson 5. He
wasn't involved in signing them to the company, and he felt their best days were behind them. ‘They already had their own cartoon,
for Christ's sake,’ he argued. ‘Why spend any more money on
them?’ If sales figures were low and the group was losing its
audience, it was the group's fault, not Motown's, he decided. With
that point of view, it wasn't surprising that Joseph disliked Ewart
Abner, and in an intense, passionate way.
When an album, Skywriter, was released in March and sold
only 115,045 copies, it became the group's poorest-selling album.
(It didn't even reach the Top 50 in Britain.) Joseph believed that all
of the records which had been failures could have been more
successful if Motown had simply promoted them properly.
There was a reprieve in the downward slide when producer
Hal Davis put together a terrific track for the Jackson boys called
‘Get It Together’. The production was tight; the music,
background vocals and Michael's maturing lead all blended nicely
on this performance, a departure from the sweeter, pop music
styles previously associated with the group. Released in August
1973, it sold over 700,000 copies. Though not a million-seller, it
encouraged Joseph in his belief that his sons still had an audience.
To his way of thinking, The Jackson 5 was not finished. If
anything, he was finished_ with Motown.
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23. Jermaine Falls for the Boss's Daughter
In early 1973, while Katherine and Joseph were distracted by the
discord in their marriage, their son Jermaine was falling in love_
with Berry Gordy's daughter. He had been dating Hazel Gordy for
several months and, at just eighteen, seemed about to follow
Rebbie's and Tito's lead by using matrimony to extricate himself
from the Jackson homestead.
It was clear to the brothers that Hazel had become an
important and influential presence in his life. For example, at a
rehearsal in March, the group had been attempting to solve a
problem in choreography with Suzanne dePasse. After a decision
had been made about how best to handle the situation, the brothers
were in agreement. However Hazel, who had begun attending all practice sessions, pulled Jermaine aside and whispered something
in his ear. Jermaine listened, nodded absently, and walked back to
his brothers. ‘I think we oughta change this step,’ he announced,
dutifully.
‘But why?’ Michael protested, according to a witness's
memory. ‘It's perfect as it is.’
‘Because Hazel has a better idea. Look, Mike, you stand here,’
he said positioning his brother. ‘And Tito here, Marlon there, and
Jackie over there.’ Jermaine then demonstrated Hazel's ‘great idea’
which, upon execution, made Jermaine more prominent in the
presentation. When Suzanne realized what had happened, she shot
Hazel a look. Hazel smiled innocently. Since Hazel was Berry's
daughter, Suzanne had no choice but to agree with her suggestion.
‘Looks fine, guys,’ she said. ‘Let's keep it.’
‘Well, I hate it,’ Michael announced, looking at Jermaine.
‘C'mon, Jermaine,’ he said, ‘I thought we agreed.’
Jermaine looked away.
The other brothers tried to ignore what had happened. ‘It ain't
that important,’ Tito decided.
‘Well, I think it is important,’ Michael concluded. ‘But you
guys can do whatever you want.’ He then looked over to Jermaine,
who now was in another conference with Hazel, shook his head
and rolled his eyes.
Jermaine had been attracted to Hazel when they first met in
1969, but not in the same way in which she fancied him. After a
short time, Hazel told Jermaine she was in love with him; he made
it clear that he was not sure he could return her affection. He was a
teenage idol, a star, and could have his pick of dozens of willing
young women. This kind of idolatry was heady stuff for a young
man like Jermaine. It made the idea of settling down with one
woman seem confining, no matter who she might be.
‘Jermaine likes girls too much to get married,’ Michael had
said. ‘I think he'll be in his thirties before he does anything like
that.’
However, Hazel was a young, idealistic girl who wanted more
than anything to marry and have a family. Not only had her father
been divorced three times, she had witnessed his tumultuous,
heart-wrenching affair with Diana Ross. Though young, Hazel
believed that true love was elusive, she remained a romantic. ‘I can truthfully say that since I fell in love with Jermaine I have
never even thought about any other man,’ she said.
Delores Robertson, who was a friend of Hazel's at the time,
recalled, ‘Berry Gordy had been lavishing Hazel, his only
daughter, with gifts for as long as she could remember. She told
him that she was in love with one of The Jackson 5 and she wanted
him for her own. Her feelings for Jermaine were so strong, she
was afraid to let him slip through her fingers for fear that no one
like him would ever come along again. She was jealous when she
would see Jermaine with female fans. 溺ichael can have fans, but
you can't,_ she used to tell him. Berry made sure she usually got
what she wanted. Now she wanted Jermaine. Berry got to know
Jermaine and, even though he felt there might be a problem with
Joseph, believed that Jermaine was right for Hazel. When
Jermaine asked Berry for her hand, he said, yes.’
Though Berry thought Joseph might be a stumbling block to
any union between his daughter and Jermaine, that wasn't the case,
at least not at first. Hazel actually found an unexpected ally in
Joseph, who might not have insisted on a pre-nuptial agreement
anyway (as he had with Tito's wife). He was certain that marriage
between his son and the boss's daughter would ensure job security
for the Jackson clan at Motown, especially since he was having a
difficult time of late in even getting Berry on the telephone. He did
all he could to help the youngsters, even referring to her as ‘my
Hazel’ and saying that he loved her.
Had Joseph given the matter more thought, he might have
been more concerned about the recent turn of events. When
Berry's sister, Anna, was married to Motown singer Marvin Gaye,
the alliance never gave Marvin special privileges at the company.
In fact, according to Marvin, it only served to complicate his life
and career because Anna acted as a spy for her brother during
times of conflict. Marvin was rarely able to make a move that
Berry didn't know about in advance. Also, Marvin said that he
always felt a strong conflict of interest whenever he and Berry
battled, which was often.
Many other Motown artists felt as Marvin did, that Jermaine
was about to be groomed by Berry to become a major star just as
Diana Ross had been lifted from The Supremes to superstar status;
that Jermaine's two solo releases for the company, ‘That's How Love Goes’ and ‘Daddy's Home’, had been successful, and he did
have the potential to be one of the company's biggest stars.
Actually, some critics cited strong similarities between Jermaine's
vocal style and Marvin Gaye's. The truth is that Jermaine had his
own sound, and it was a good one, too, full-bodied and always an
interesting contrast to Michael's high-pitch on the many songs the
two shared at Motown. (Actually, the reason Jermaine started
singing leads at the company was that the group's producer, Deke
Richards, was hospitalized with a slipped disk. He didn't want
Fonce Mizell and Freddie Perren, to work with Michael without
him, so he told them to write something for Jermaine. That song
was ‘I Found That Girl’, the flip side of ‘The Love You Save’.)
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